Soulcare & Storywork
You are not broken.
Your story makes sense.
Private, trauma-aware coaching for men healing from sexual addiction, shame, and fractured identity— with a steady, faith-formed framework for integration.
A steadier pace
Healing isn’t a sprint.
We slow down, listen for what’s underneath, and build rhythms that hold under pressure— so your life becomes sustainable, not just “managed.”
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Where are you right now?
No labels. No pressure. Just an honest starting point—so you can take the next right step.
You’re beginning to name patterns you’ve carried quietly. Disorienting—and also the beginning of clarity.
Coaching helps you slow down, reduce shame, and build steady early recovery rhythms without performance or panic.
You’ve made progress, but something underneath still feels unresolved—like you keep hitting the same wall.
Coaching helps you identify deeper drivers (shame, attachment injury, stress patterns) and build practices that integrate healing.
You’re not just aiming for sobriety—you want congruence, restored desire, and healthier intimacy.
Coaching helps consolidate what you’ve learned and engage layers beneath behavior for a sustainable “rule of life.”
You’re doing well—and you want to stay well. Maintenance is wisdom, not fear.
Coaching helps refine rhythms, strengthen integrity, and keep recovery rooted in sustainable practices.
Leadership carries weight. You may need language, boundaries, and a steady place to process what you hold.
Coaching helps you avoid burnout and build a framework for mentoring without carrying responsibility that isn’t yours.
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Confidential Sexual Behavior Self-Assessment
A guide to your next steps in recovery
Start this 25 question assessment to help guide your next steps. This assessment is not intended to be a clinical diagnosis—use results as needed.
Coaching is
- Relational and story-centered
- Trauma-aware and paced
- Grounded in faith and formation
- Focused on integration, not performance
Coaching is not
- Behavior policing
- Moral pressure or shame-based accountability
- A replacement for therapy
- A shortcut or quick fix
Storywork
Language for what you’ve lived
This framework isn’t a diagnosis and it isn’t a shame map. It’s a compassionate way to name your patterns—so you can change them.
When the nervous system has learned to survive, it chooses protection first. Survival responses are often wise—formed under pressure.
What coaching does here
We build safety and regulation, reduce shame, and name what your system learned to do to endure.
Coping is the attempt to manage pain, stress, loneliness, or overwhelm—often with the tools that were available at the time.
What coaching does here
We strengthen healthy rhythms and supports, and widen your options for comfort, connection, and regulation.
Inner conflict intensifies: what you value and what you do feel out of alignment. That gap can create secrecy, fragmentation, and fatigue.
What coaching does here
We slow down the inner war, build honest language, and restore congruence—without crushing yourself.
Compulsion isn’t simply “weakness.” It is often a reinforced pathway for relief, escape, soothing, or control when the system is stressed.
What coaching does here
We map triggers and patterns, build interruption practices, and address the deeper need the compulsion is trying to meet.
Awakening is the moment honesty begins to feel possible: naming reality, seeking help, and allowing your story to be witnessed.
What coaching does here
We clarify next steps, strengthen support structures, and practice confession, courage, and consistency.
Integration is the slow joining of what was split—moving toward wholeness and relational integrity over time.
What coaching does here
We consolidate practices, repair relational patterns, and deepen identity rooted in truth—not performance.
Freedom isn’t the absence of temptation. It’s a life anchored in presence, integrity, and love—where desires are being reordered.
What coaching does here
We build sustainable maintenance, a wise rule of life, and ongoing growth that holds both humility and strength.